Got in a fight with my man. I pick fights. I feel justified doing it. I'll want to discuss something that's bothering me, I'll try to phrase my argument in a non-acusatory way but I'll offend him anyway. I won't complete my objective for fear of hurting his feelings. Don't get me wrong, the extent of damage an arguement does, the volume of the fight and the value of the discussion varies from man to man. 'A' is great. 'C' was a bastard about things ("it's my way or the highway".... seriously). 'A' isn't quite a push over but I wish he'd stand up for himself by argueing back, not by looking hurt and upset and saying nothing. Still, I bet he wishes I'd quit bringing things up.

Savage Love is probably right... every relationship fails until the one that doesn't. Sometimes that one fails too, I guess.

'Night.

Nicole